what should i do to change my habits to attract what i want?

[anahita]

Michael,
while reading your book, chapter 11, some questions came to my mind. you say i should act as if i have what i want right now.well, i want to attract a soulmate, a lover and an ideal man to my life. but i dont know what should i do to act like such man is in my life right now.same problem with getting rich and having an ideal career with a big income.can u help me with this?
anyone else can help me?i appreciate any help

anahita

[Michael Miles]

It's hard to generalize, of course, but there is a certain kind of feeling associated with things. For example, when you have a lot of money, you feel a certain way. I think you need to try to feel like this. One way of feeling wealthy is to go and experience things that wealthy people experience - go and stay in a nice hotel or go out for a meal at a really nice restaurant, and do it on a regular basis. Or even do smaller, simpler things which can make you feel wealthy and comfortable with money. When you generate the right feelings, the experience will come more easily and naturally. It can be a hard thing to do! Like anything, you have to get the 'knack.' But when you do, you'll know that you are doing the right thing. Keep going!

It's also important to get rid of any blocks you might have about attracting certain things - remember that abundance is flowing to you all the time, but you are blocking it because of your emotional conditioning. I have personally found EFT to be very effective in releasing these blocks - I would suggest you look into this, too.

MM